This was our first time in Lake Tahoe and Incline Village was recommended as a place to avoid the tourist crowds in other parts of North Tahoe. I would agree that Incline Village is less crowded. We visited in July 2018 for three nights and overall, I didn't think N. Lake Tahoe was terribly crowded. It may be a different experience during ski season.
The condo was very nice and comfortable and had everything we needed. The appliances were updated etc and the kitchen appeared well stocked. We did not cook, however. The balcony over looks the parking area and the other apartment building but there are still trees to enjoy and we even saw a bear on the property one evening. There are permanent residents residing around the condo - and at times they were noisy, but certainly not disruptive to our experience.
The property owner was quick to respond to questions and making the arrangements was seamless. Starbucks and a grocery store is within walking distance, if you wish. You can get to Kings Beach in 15-20 min and many hiking trails. The restaurants around are average, don't expect cuisine. Lone Eagle Grill may be the closest to a decent meal but since it's hotel resort restaurant, everything is priced ridiculously for the quality of food you get. If you're a vegetarian like one of us, your options are even more limited. I think seeing a brown bear up close from the balcony was one of the highlights of our Lake Tahoe trip!